Sexual and orgasmic energy is potent. Orgasms aren’t just pleasurable; they are brain-altering, mood-boosting, and confidence-building. They release endorphins, reduce stress, and can literally change your brain chemistry, helping you process heavier emotions while reinforcing feelings of self-worth and empowerment. By intentionally engaging with your sexual energy, you step into life feeling juicy, confident, and ready to pursue what you want.

That little pause while you reach for it? Sexy. The build-up? Hot. Asking “Is this okay?” while you drizzle some onto your partner’s skin and watch their reaction? Smoking. When you use lube as a playful tool instead of a hidden fix, it becomes part of the erotic tension.

These are just some of the ways you can start expressing your desires, needs and curiosities. As sexual beings, we should all have the opportunity to live delicious, orgasmic lives. Being able to explore our sexual needs with curiosity and without judgement is a fundamental human right. So next time you are with your lover, remember that you deserve to explore all of your sexual desires, no matter how wild they may be.