Divorce isn’t just an end, it’s a new beginning.
It’s no secret that over half of marriages end in divorce. Your marital status can become part of your identity so naturally, the end of the relationship can leave your sense of self shattered.
While your world may feel like it’s spinning into the stratosphere, we want to remind you that everything has a silver lining. You’re given the opportunity to discover who you are at your very core - no relationships attached.
Yinn is here to help you redefine and rediscover who you are, what you love, and where you want to head from here. This is a journey of self-exploration, healing, exposing wounds, and transformation.
Everyone’s timeline is different so self-pleasure and sexual exploration may or may not have been a part of your story. Our bodies can close up if we hold onto suppressed sexuality and trauma.
For yoni owners, this can lead to tension, discomfort, dryness, low libido, and an inability to climax as well as an impact on hormones. Similarly, for penis owners, it can manifest in premature ejaculation, inability to climax, low libido, and erectile dysfunction.
Releasing tension and exploring your pleasure zones in a solo and safe environment is essential to ensure you move into healthy, deeply fulfilling, and sexually satisfying relationships with yourself and others.
Fresh out of a long-term relationship? Here are five reasons you need a dildo:
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Understanding your pleasure zones will empower you to communicate your desires and boundaries with a new partner. By improving your relationship with your own body, you will start to tune into its “yes” and “no” responses and act accordingly
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Improves your body confidence and self-worth. When in a long-term relationship we can fall into unhealthy patterns and this can lead to lower self-esteem and a lack of confidence. This is your opportunity to start afresh and create a lifestyle you love
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Solo self-pleasure allows you to explore things you may not have felt comfortable trying with a partner or former lovers because of fear of judgment or shame (anal play anyone?)
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Self-pleasure allows you to experience different types of orgasms that may not have been achievable in sex with a former lover. Using a dildo allows you to reach different pleasure zones that are not typically reached through “traditional” penis in vagina sex. For example, p-spot, g-zone, cervical stimulation, and stimulation of the entire clitoral network
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Self-pleasure allows you to go at your own pace so there’s no rush to “get it done”
The Luna is the perfect beginner’s wand, its lightweight and tapered shape follows the body’s natural curve allowing access to the g-zone, cervix, and p-spot, and is the perfect size and shape for de-armouring.
The Luna can also be used anally for beginners, its tapered length allows for slow and gentle access rather than using a more bulbous wand or plug that can feel a bit too big to start. Once you are comfortable with the insertion and feel your sphincter muscles have relaxed enough, you can use the bulbous end for the anal penetration or move onto an anal plug or anal wand.
Self-pleasure is an act of exploration and self-care. It will crack you open, expose your wounds, and heal you in ways you never expected. When your life is heading in an unanticipated direction, tuning into your body will always help you to find your way.